I Don't Care What Your Husband Doesn't Need To See

This is my response to this piece of blogging I read today - http://applesandbandaidsblog.com/2014/06/11/my-husband-doesnt-need-to-see-your-boobs/

In the post, a good looking, married teacher informs other women that  posting photos of ourselves in bikinis or low cut tops where our boobs are showing is causing a "stumbling block in our marriage." And that "our men are much less emotional and are much more visual. And as quickly as I can forget your picture, it is filed away in his mind, ready to be pulled back out whenever he so chooses."

FFS really?

I'll be the first to admit, I have some severe jealousy issues and a horribly low self-esteem. When my boyfriend and I first started dating 5 years ago, I struggled all the time with believing that he loved me and found me attractive, we had arguments about strip clubs & porn regularly (and I'll note that these two things weren't even relevant issues in our lives). As time went on, I relaxed a bit, started to really believe him when he said he loved me, when he told me I was hot. The issues I had at the beginning of our relationship had not one thing to do with how he treated me. It was an internal issue that I needed to deal with.

This women who wrote this blog post CLEARLY has some self-esteem and or trust issues. But I'll tell that lady one thing, ME showing my boobs off, will NOT make or break your marriage. ME taking a photo of myself in a bathing suit or a low-cut dress will not be your stumbling block. And if it is...than there are a lot more issues than just my tatas and I suggest you get them figured out. If you cannot trust your husband to look at a picture of someone's boobs and not bring it back up in their mind while you two are being intimate than I suggest you get some therapy or you two go together, because some issues need to be worked out.

But for me, I'll show my bizumees, whenever I so please. And I'll let my boyfriend check out other ladies tigobitties if he wants, because I trust him. I trust than when we lay down at night, he is thinking of me and only me, I trust that he loves me but appreciates other ladies dirty pillows.

So please, lady with a blog, don't tell me to stop showing my boobs.